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Short Tag Line:
Clean w/papers. Certified. Hung w/stamina. Straight. Experienced. Seeking ongoing friendship.
I/We are looking for
NOTE: I'M NOT LONGER SINGLE AND THEREFORE NOT PLAYING ANYMORE. If you like you could leave me a message in case I break up with my partner in the future, but I'm not hoping for that.
You can find me on any popular instant messager with the same name as here.
I've been graced with very flattering certifications, please check them out :)
My user-name is a play on words, it breaks down to I LOVE 2 4NIK8 which spells out "I Love to fornicate."
I would like an ongoing friendship with a couple or single girl. For couples I AM NOT INTO ANY guy-on-guy stuff, this includes guy-on-guy oral, The closest I'll get is DV.
What I do want is all relative and many things can be fun so it's hard to list everything, but I'm 100% sure about what I don't want:
I DON'T play with couples who are cheating on their individual spouses or single girls who are going behind someone's back. Not that kind of guy.
I DON'T do "bareback", condoms a MUST.
I DON'T play with couples that aren't clean. I'm clean, and have recent (last 6 months) test results on-hand. I am educated in what STD symptoms look like.
I DON'T "Party and Play" or do drugs of any kind (but i don't mind those who smoke pot).
I DON'T do ANY guy-on-guy stuff. Closest I'll get (and will ever get) is DV and for me that is all about her enjoyment.
Describe Yourself:
I'm very ethical, and I swing because it's a way to get around an ethical dilemma, bear with me here...
Most women need a deep connection on a personal level, and need to be serious with a man that they're sleeping with. Even if that wasn't their initial intent, it tends to happen... sometimes it creeps up on you. Don't get me wrong, I really do want to find that special someone but I'm rather picky about personalities when it comes to being serious for with a woman. It's difficult for me to find someone that I really "click" with. On the other hand, I'm a very sexual person and I enjoy sex a lot. So I started swinging because I don't like the idea of faking a serious relationship for sex. I'm not that kind of guy. When I am with someone on a serious level, I stop swinging (unless of course she's also game).
Physically I'm really tall, slim, well endowed, tan skinned, black hair, brown eyes. No tattoos, no piercings. I don't do any illegal drugs. Been in the lifestyle about three years. I'm very respectful, courteous, college educated and intelligent. I have no diseases, I get tested regularly and ALWAYS play it safe (condoms are MANDATORY).
I'm not pushy and at the same time not shy... I "go with the flow", I'm good at sensing comfort levels and proceeding accordingly. I respect all limits and rules. I'm a true gentleman outside the bed and if it's a mutual kink I like to be very dominant in the bedroom.
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
======Helpful tip for couples that aren't interested in single males=======
===How to make it so when Singe men search for couples they wont find you===
I notice that a lot of couples have their preferences set for interest in single males when they aren't really looking for that kind of thing. A LOT of couples will say things like "Don't contact us, we'll contact you". If this is you then here's how to change your preferences so that you're not listed in the search results for single males:
- Click the "My account" on the left.
- Click the "Update Profile" link just above the banner.
- You will see a row of buttons, one of them is "Prefrences, click that.
- Scroll down to the "Who are you looking for" section.
- Under this section where it says "Are you interested in single men?" select the drop down menu and leave it on "No".
- Scroll down to the very bottom button that says "Update". Click it.
- Done! You won't appear on searches for single men! They will still appear on your searches, this will allow you to contact them without them finding you!
=-=-=-=-=- BONUS: for those who want even more protection=-=-=-=-=-
There's an extra step you can take to block single males:
- Click "Tools" on the left.
- Under the 4th row labeled "Privacy Options" The very first button is labeled "Privacy features", click it.
- Under the option for "Hide me from single males" choose the yes option.
- Click Update.
- Done.
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